Showing posts with label roommates.. Show all posts
Showing posts with label roommates.. Show all posts

Sunday, 30 April 2017

Who is SKY?

I usually don't care about other people's opinion, but when it comes to the people I choose by my side (AKA almost only the 200 Facebook friends I have) I definitely care about their opinions and advice.

I asked friends and family to describe me and this is what they said (with minor editing). Each statement is followed by the relationship type (whether friendship, blood or acquaintance) then its length. Now you know me a little better! This article may be updated later. Also, super long. Enjoy!



"I see her I tickle pink. I know distance will never tear us apart. Boredom never crossed my road walking with her, I'm just myself in her presence. One of the few persons that I can trust or actually not a few, there's no one else I can trust. I really have to work on my "texting" for her, she deserves it" -friend, 6 years.


"Samaa is a cheerful, helpful person. She's funny and has a good sense of humour. Not dumb at all and not arrogant" -friend, 8 months.

"An energetic, friendly and sociable person who is not afraid to speak her mind and express her opinions." -acquaintance/ colleague, two years.

"Samaa, like any other human being, is someone with so many layers underneath. Right when you'd think you know her you realize that you still don't. At first, you'd think she's the loud, fun girl with a dirty mind. After a while of knowing her, you'd see the blunt girl who says all what's on her mind fearlessly. You'd blame her for saying something out loud though you think of it all the time. She's sort of intimidating for opinionated people. Right when you start to judge her for not being so religious you'd find her encouraging you to pray and reading about whether or not something is halal before doing it. See, the difference between her and the rest of the world is that she doesn't take any piece of information for granted. She has to check for its validation. So you'd judge her based on your shallow knowledge and you'd never think that she knows better. That cheerful girl hides so much pain in her heart that she chooses not to share except with her close friends, which are, to be honest, A LOT. She does have some negative qualities like we all do. She's too stubborn that you can't easily make her change her mind, even if she's harming herself. She doesn't always make logical decisions because of that. She may, sometimes, come out as heartless or self-centred, though I don't know how true that is. Overall she's one of her kind, which is somehow fortunate, but you'd enjoy her company more than anything else." -friend/colleague, 5 years.

"Funny and curious, it is a pleasure to talk to her." -acquaintance, 6 months.

"Samouaa, my long-distance best friend, the hidden mermaid, I know that because she has a personality and looks of a mermaid. I love her because she's always there for me, makes me laugh, we also judge people together." -friend, 2 intensive years.

"She is different. Weird, loud, crazy, hard-headed, crazy sometimes. She's really smart. She's strong. She doesn't give a damn sometimes. She is not to be broken easily." -friend, almost 6 years.

"Samaa is an adventurous courageous girl. I met her in 2014 at the regional WRO. We've been friends since then. I knew that she is courageous when she jumped from the bridge in Russia. She is a person who loves food and likes to enjoy eating healthy food. She's also a person whom you'd like to spend time chatting with her and I guarantee that you'll enjoy every single message. You'll always meet ordinary girls with boring characters but she's an extraordinary girl with an awesome character."-friend, almost 3 years."

"If I am going to mention what I like about Samaa, then I can describe her as beautiful, energetic, funny, inspiring and friendly. However, she is also very stubborn, a drama queen, sometimes annoying (but I actually love that), very unexpected." -friend, 5 years.



"As goofy as we both can get, the best thing I have learned from her is to be my own hero; it doesn't matter how tough it gets, you must stand up for yourself and fight till the end. She is with no doubt my sister, not by blood, but by her standing by me when I most needed her and never leaving my side. The thing is, anyone that has the fortunate to have someone that astonishing by their side is extremely lucky. No matter how far she is, or how different she'll be when I see her again, she will always be my sister and one of the best thing that happened to me." -friend, almost 5 years.

"An oppressed child trapped in the body of an adult." -xxx, 16 years.

"I'm happy I met someone like her. She's so funny, so cute. I'm so happy to share some moments with her. She's addicted to taking photos and music, especially Rockabye! But she's kind. I just love her."- roommate/ friend, a month.


"She is an ambitious Muslim girl who has the courage to do whatever she wants. She's brave, loyal and funny. However, she's a bit careless and unorganised in general and she needs to be more honest with herself, her friends and her family. Sometimes it seems like she doesn't have any red lines and she says or does anything that comes to her mind. She could be a better person if she wanted and worked on it." -colleague/ friend, 5 years.

"Spontaneous, silly, loud, a chatterbox, kind and you can count on her." -cousin, 20 years.

"She is a child who is fighting to grow up in a world where everyone else is fighting to come back a child. Full of dreams and enthusiasm, she has no idea about what is coming after. Anyway, I am sure she will handle it." -roommate/ friend, eight months.

"Well, Samaa is a very interesting person, although she drives me crazy with her mood swings and everything but she's very funny and she's really a positive person and I like talking to her to be honest."-friend, ???.

"One of the most humorous, sociable and energetic people." -friend/ colleague, 5 years.

"Pretty much independent; with or without anyone she'll have the most out of her time. High achiever, doesn't follow any trend but rather does her own and follows it. Wouldn't mind walking in a path different than the one everyone one else is taking." -colleague/ acquaintance, 2 years.

"Despite her craziness, loud laughs and inappropriate comments, you fail not to get attached to her in a weird way." - friend/ colleague, 5 years.



"Crazy, outgoing, she loves trying new things and doesn't care about people's opinion." -friend/ colleague, 5 years.

"Samaa has shown academic excellence, commitment and hard work since she was a little kid by explicitly being the top student in her school and scoring the highest grades. This has never deteriorated her social life. On a more personal level, Samaa has a very random, unique and amusing personality. You can never get bored from her hilarious punchlines (and sometimes pranks) when she is around. Her remarkable and sociable personality has allowed her to acquire a lot of friends everywhere (in her school, during competitions and in her social clubs)." -mentor/friend, 5 years.

"I may not be the best one to write descriptions about their friends, but what I can say about Samaa that she resembles for me a pure heart, kindness and the most spontaneous childish soul I have ever met. I do hope she keeps that charming spirit but I also want her to be careful as others might misuse these traits. and of course I wish her best of luck." -colleague/ acquaintance, 5 years.

"Everyone agrees that I was way quieter before I met her. I don't know what happened and how we became friends but I'm more than grateful that I met her, my very first true best friend. We both were in French schools, love mermaids, (we actually want to be mermaids) we are shopaholics. We have much in common (at least I think so). I guess we became closer when we travelled together to the states where all the good memories started and we became shopping partners. I threw a bowl full of ice on her to wake her up, she screamed so loud people hear outside!
She is still the same spontaneous crazy beautiful child but a more fearless lady in her 20s. It's actually a blessing to be always a child at heart and I'm more than blessed to have her in my life. Sometimes those traits get her in trouble but we get through them and honestly my life would be boring without her. She might not be sugar, spice and everything nice but she is definitely special in her own way and our life is full of spice."

I want to thank every soul who contributed with those honest words. I love you all.



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Thursday, 16 February 2017

FIFTY SHADES of ROOMMATES

I used to live alone (read Home Alone article) but, as some of you might know, I have a roommate now, Noura (pronounced "Noora" in English though). And as a blogger, who writes about her personal experience most of the time, I couldn't miss the chance of documenting these...



1. Gradual weirdo-ing

At first, each of the parties tries to act as polite and civil as possible. But then, just few days later, we found ourselves having a conversation about a random topic, college or even personal issues while one of us is taking a shower! And the weirdo-ing has no end...

2. The Little Things

I believe that small details matter and simple acts of kindness can change a person's day. Even just sharing a chocolate bar or even doing you roommies dishes. You'll be surprised of how these simple gestures mean a lot!

3. Extra Pair of Hands

Either it's cleaning the apartment or just bringing you something, it's definitely easier than living alone. Especially if you're living with a nice helpful person who doesn't complain if you ask them for something from the fridge while they're there, for example. But don't abuse your mate, it's not nice.

4. Moral Support

I'm talking about "Just attach the CV! What's the worst thing that can happen?" sort of conversations and prep talks. Noura helped me in this area quite a lot in a short period of time, offering advice and encouragements [insert glittery hearts here]. I gave her some advice myself, not life-saving type of advice, but I did my best so...

5. Become Better

I must admit she's the reason I wake up early for college, snoozing once or twice maximum! I'm always afraid I'll wake her up so I get up as fast as I can. (Although I'm pretty noisy while getting ready, but I'm working on it!) I also try as much as I can to not leave any dishes in the sink because it's annoying, I'm sure. Noura, I WILL DO THEM AFTER I PUBLISH THIS, I SWEAR.

6. Deep Talk

You know that kind of conversations, when you discuss ice cream flavour or your childhood ice cream memories? I call that deep. Honestly, you can know a person's personality from their Top 5 Ice Cream Flavours! Well I just made that up. Okay, Google has a different saying. Anyway, my point is, there are always deep talks when you spend a lot of time with someone. Inevitable.

7. Change of Habits

Similar to #5 but not really. When one of the roommies is a loud person, and the other has a loud notification ringtone, some changes need to be done. Some are more important than the others, though. Switching the lights at 11 pm. Turning the heating on 8 instead of, like, 5 or 2. Some are just advice, like "You should use less butter", "Don't eat now, it's 10 pm" and Noura's favourite "Stop cussing!".

8. Real Talk

No matter how hard you'll try to fake it, a roommie will know you didn't have today while meeting this person or something's not right. I share, almost unthinkably, my day's details and how pissed of I am at this professor or that apple that tasted like the worst thing in the universe and made me cringe so bad. The book I'm reading is terrible and "I can honestly write better than this!". And I listen to "I'm so proud of myself I ran 4 km today". This is how I feel less lonely in Paris.

9. Mother Care

Women are generally sensitive and caring because of what science calls "motherhood instinct". So yeah, basically, Noura and I care about each other. Not in a huge way, but as an over-thinker myself, I can see it in the small actions. Like when I fell asleep and she put a blanket on me or when she was sitting with her back bent and I told her to straighten it, etc etc, you get the point. I appreciate these types of small things.

10. Hallucinations

Okay, so this is the creepy part. At least we find it creepy! Some things, very awkward, inexplicable, happened. 

Yesterday, Noura was sleeping in a super uncomfortable position, and as a caring roommie, I tried to roll her over or something. She freaked out when I touched her then yelled "What's wrong!!!?" and I screamed terrified because she was in deep sleep and suddenly she yelled in full consciousness. Like in a horror movie. 

This afternoon, she texted me "Ah, by the way, yesterday you woke me up complaining 'What you're doing, Noura, is unacceptable!!' and I was literally doing nothing". After denying saying such thing and the utter surprise, I came to the conclusion that we should put mics and cameras in the apartment because neither of us succeeded in believing what she's done yesterday! I mean, I was just asking her how to translate what we said, and I kept saying "I can't believe I said that!". 

Living abroad makes everything a big of a deal, indeed.

A final word! 

Thank you Noura for tolerating me 24/7. And listening when I turn into a "Did you know...?" program, listing random facts with dates and numbers and countries. And thank you for listening to my stories about my weird complicated childhood. Lots of love!

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