Before you start typing "not all men", please, read the whole article.
Are you following up on this trend on Twitter called "men are trash"? It's not just women complaining about men, it's men being called out for their sexist crimes and how they get out away with them... Long threads were written to explain the actual purpose of this expression after women were attacked.
And before you say "But women are never called trash as well, this is sexist." Let me just tell you that, there's a whole vocabulary used against women, besides, of course, the actual serious sexism and harassment and abuse and murders..
Words like "slut" and its synonyms belong to this vocab. I could list all of them, but they're too disgusting.
But really, why are men called trash? Are ALL men trash? What's the deal?
If you're loyal and respectful to women, you're not trash. If you actually care about your female partner emotionally before sexually, you are not trash, my friend. If you're a decent gentleman who knows his lady's worth you certainly aren't trash. You're not trash if you believe that your partner is an independent person who's mature enough to make her own decisions and knows what's best for her.
But if you cheat and lie and only see women as objects and possessions, then you are. If you control your significant other, telling her what to wear and who to talk to, you're trash. If you forbid her from working and going out (which is basically locking her up), what the hell are you doing, trash can? If you insult your woman, yell at her and basically use her as a punchbag, "because you have 'problems at work' ", you're emotionally abusing her, thus you're on the list too. If you harass and catcall women on the streets, you're the trashiest of them all. It's as simple as that.
And before you say "But women are never called trash as well, this is sexist." Let me just tell you that, there's a whole vocabulary used against women, besides, of course, the actual serious sexism and harassment and abuse and murders..
Words like "slut" and its synonyms belong to this vocab. I could list all of them, but they're too disgusting.
But really, why are men called trash? Are ALL men trash? What's the deal?
If you're loyal and respectful to women, you're not trash. If you actually care about your female partner emotionally before sexually, you are not trash, my friend. If you're a decent gentleman who knows his lady's worth you certainly aren't trash. You're not trash if you believe that your partner is an independent person who's mature enough to make her own decisions and knows what's best for her.
But if you cheat and lie and only see women as objects and possessions, then you are. If you control your significant other, telling her what to wear and who to talk to, you're trash. If you forbid her from working and going out (which is basically locking her up), what the hell are you doing, trash can? If you insult your woman, yell at her and basically use her as a punchbag, "because you have 'problems at work' ", you're emotionally abusing her, thus you're on the list too. If you harass and catcall women on the streets, you're the trashiest of them all. It's as simple as that.
People usually forget that trashy men are not only lovers and husbands, they could be fathers, brothers or relatives generally. If you treat your son better than your daughter, giving him more freedom and options, you are trash. If you spy on your daughter or sister "because you're protecting her", whether you read her texts or follow her everywhere, you're trash. If you punish her by depriving her from basic human rights such as going out or even food and money, surprise surprise, you're trash. If you lay hands on her, YOU ARE TRASH. If you debase her for money, you are just...!!
The list goes on and on and I have so many real examples, but I think you get the idea so far.
So please, nice guys, stop the "not all men" and "stop generalizing" ranting because all what I listed was common sense. And let me tell you a secret, if you're actually a good guy, you shouldn't feel the need to defend yourself [wink wink]. And don't worry about the rest of the trashy men, they have tongues and fingers and they can talk and type for themselves.
And I wish all the trashy guys a very sad life unless they stop "trashing".
Final note: I'm not a feminist because I use the "men are trash" expression and keep hating on men all the time. That's not feminism. Feminism is respecting the opposite gender and aiming for equality. I'm doing this, yet..
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